Monday, Mar. 01, 2010 - 9:43 a.m.
Not a Happy solution to the problem.....but the RIGHT ONE nonetheless

so the shit really hit the fan.

a couple days ago Phaedra called me and told me that her someone called her parents and told them that she was drunk and wasting her life away.

so her parents being the drastic, dramatic people that they are, immediately made her move out of her apartment and back home where they could keep an eye on her.

When she told me,i immediately thought,"OH SHIT!! i know it's Ravi...it has to be!...he's the only person i told and probably flipped out being heartbroken and lovesick and all and told her parents!!"

she thought it was him...but i told her don't be so quick to accuse and don't call him and be calm.
of course she did none of these things!!


Ravi swung by my apartment this afternoon and we talked a bit and LO AND BEHOLD!!.........he admitted that he was the one that told her parents.
he actually went home and sat down with them and explained that she was going wild and getting drunk and smoking weed with fucked up company.

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i was feeling so guilty about telling R. abt how was Phaedra was behaving and the only reason i told him was for him to move on with his life and stop tagging along behind her and hoping that she gives him a second chance.

but now i don't feel guilty at all....ok maybe a little bit still.

But you know the most FUCKED UP THING THAT HAPPENED THIS AFTERNOON?!!!
While R. and i were talking Phaedra msged him and said soemthing along the lines of:

it was nicole that fucking sold me out. if you talk to her don't tell her anything.she is a fucking cunt!!"

WOW!! I was shocked and hurt for a split-second....but i immediately knew that it didn't matter what she thought. she was spinning out of control and if someone didn't do something......... i know something bad would've happened.

never mind that she hates me and is probablt bashing my name as i type this....the bottom line is...she got some help...yes it was extreme and she was obviously pissed that her parents found out.....but it's for the best.

Phaedra's parents told R that, i know that it's true.

so Phaedra...if this is the end of our friendship at least i know now that you're safe and not destroying your life.
if you don't ever want to talk to me again...i can live with that. i can live with knowing that the right thing was done.


honestly, i didn't know how this would've turned out and i kept doubting myself. i kept doubting that i did the right thing in telling R.
But Big Guy....you're the best. i can always trust you to sort things out. in your hands everything is safe :)
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